I have always been tough on myself.
I’m going to try and be nice to myself. It’s going to take some time but I’m patient.
Here’s a serious advice. Even the nicest people have their limits. Don’t try to reach that point because the nicest people are also the scariest assholes when they’ve had enough.
An important thing:
Remember that people will refer to your confidence as conceited because it is intimidating to see someone loving themselves without shame or fear. Fuck them. Life is too short to pretend that you’re not amazing.